A 16-year-old girl, identified as Laura, is currently staying in a youth facility in Berlin under the supervision of social workers. She has firmly stated that she does not wish to see her father, even if the meeting is conducted in the presence of a social worker. Her father, who was in Germany, returned to Patras following her repeated refusals.
According to Berlin police spokesperson Jorn Iflander, Laura arrived at the facility on February 26 and contacted authorities herself. She has not committed any offense, and there have been no reported problems with her behavior. The reasons behind her departure from Greece and her refusal to communicate with her family remain unclear.
What German Law Says
Under the German Civil Code (Bürgerliches Gesetzbuch, BGB), Article 1684, the right of contact (Umgangsrecht) is both a parental obligation and a child’s right. If a minor expresses a wish not to see a parent, this refusal does not automatically terminate the parent-child contact.
Family courts assess each case based on the child’s best interests (Kindeswohl). While the child’s opinion carries more weight as they mature, it is not solely decisive until adulthood. In cases of abuse, neglect, or psychological stress, courts may restrict or suspend contact.
Typically, the local youth authority (Jugendamt) intervenes first, evaluating the situation and seeking solutions that serve the child’s welfare. Courts may also consult experts to determine supervised visitation or temporary suspension if a minor persistently refuses contact due to fear or emotional distress.
Father’s Perspective
Lora’s father has expressed concern for her well-being, saying: “She must first find her calm. I need to meet and talk with her. If allowed, I can speak with her anytime, but she must recover first.”
He also acknowledged the difficulties she experienced in Greece, including school challenges, and emphasized that the family relationship was not the source of her distress.
